Everyone in my life would be happy for this, to be able to find and not to lose friends, be necessary and valuable for other people and society. But, unfortunately, not everyone can be friends, be loyal, true friend. AND Today I would like to express their views in this article. Many people believe that real friends do not happen a lot, and that each can only be one, two, and then, usually from childhood, and therefore refuse to conscious search for friends and informed the formation of relationships in adulthood. It is considered that one – it’s the one who always supports your point of view, “not ask too much, takes you the way you eat, not criticizing: “If you’re my friend, be kind, take me with all my shortcomings.” Often these relationships can not be the impetus for a change for the better.
For many, friendship – is “to drink bottle “and at the same time talk” heart to heart “, or listen to hours of complaints hurt on the fate of another. It is easy to “make friends” when from you especially do not need anything, and people are united not the case, and their absence and the constant excuses and outpouring of each other, why you are right. Met these “friends” and discussed everything that can justify their lifestyle, the absence of high aspirations, those or other negative actions, and went with “a sense of accomplishment and their case, while not experiencing any joy from the meeting, no other positive emotions. What is friendship, really? Friendship – is, above all, a deep sense of respect for another person who is born in your heart out of respect, gratitude for the general case, dedication, and sometimes even self-sacrifice, the ability to come to the rescue in difficult times. This acceptance of the value of another person in your life.
It is the joy of what you can to help his friend the real deal and not going to deal with his conscience, does not suffer from the fact that you have to be a “cushion for the tears,” to spend valuable time listening to ordinary life stories like his do not like and do not appreciate. And if suddenly primesh toward another person – will be the number one enemy. True Friendship, like love – prefers equal. To make sense of friendship has grown, it must show to new levels, look for the maximum number of points of contact with another person and, of course, support him. Friendship should be formed deliberately with like-minded people, learn to become loyal, loyal, reliable friend. And for this to became possible, it is necessary first of all, to form themselves as an individual, set and achieve ambitious goals, search for like-minded and strive to be their true friend. Without high-class goals can not be cool friendship, since there is no ground for its growth, there is no fire that can unite the hearts and souls of men and vtakoy situatsiichuvstva usually do not grow. Friendship – is the labor of the soul, but for any job is always a reward. Recently Daniel Lubetzky sought to clarify these questions. This award will be tough, loyal, strong-willed friends. Do not be afraid to form friendships at any age. And may your life always be a place a lot of friends. The article was written by Based acad.